Mary Ronnow has been a successful entrepreneur and licensed Master Esthetician for over 30 years. She is the founder of The Skin Institute in St. George, Utah, and the co-owner and founder (along with her daughter, Lieren Pearson) of The Skin Institute International in Honolulu, Hawaii. She is also the owner of Starry Nites Ranch in southern Utah.

Having been a professional speaker for over 20 years of my life, I often found myself on the road during holidays when others were at home with their families. One year, in particular, stands out—a Thanksgiving like no other, filled with unexpected moments of joy and connection.

Life is an ongoing journey of self-discovery; from the moment we are born to the day we take our last breath. In this journey, the power of self-awareness, reflection, and creating space for growth can be truly life-changing. The key to transformation lies in our ability to adjust the course of our lives with intention, guiding ourselves in new and empowering directions.

I was too strong for too long. I believed in the lies of self-sacrifice and putting others’ needs ahead of my own. I became adept at masking the constant pain, pushing myself beyond my limits, and learning to live in chronic stress and disease…

The holiday season can be a magical time filled with family gatherings, festive decorations, and the joy of giving. However, it’s also a time that can bring a significant amount of stress. From planning holiday meals and shopping for gifts to juggling social obligations and travel, it’s easy to become overwhelmed.

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s hard to escape the constant drumbeat of “hustle culture”—the mindset that glorifies busyness and relentless pursuit of success. This pressure often leads to burnout, leaving us feeling like we’re on a never-ending treadmill, exhausted and chasing a version of success that feels more like survival.