Spring is here with determination and hope that it is time to move forward with as much safety and health as possible.

When we drive, we often gaze into the rear-view mirror and read the very small letters that say, “Objects in mirror may appear closer than they are.” Then, we quickly focus forward again. The rear-view mirror is small, but the windshield is large. It’s time to look out and move toward the larger view.

Many gifts are expanding in our world now. We must take the time to look from them. Read that again. I said, from them, not only for them. We are the good emerging and expanding our world now. We can only see in the world the things we are. When we see the beauty inside, we recognize the beauty outside. When we see the joy in us, we bring joy into the world. At this transformational time, what does the world need more of that you can provide? Beauty? Joy? Peace?

This spring, we have the opportunity to emerge as new people post-pandemic. We have had time, for better or worse, at home. Like the caterpillar turns into the cocoon and comes out a butterfly; you, too, can come out as a new being.

As part of my own personal re-development, I have added more personal self-help and leadership offerings to my consulting business. I am now officiating online virtual memorials (funerals), elopements, and small weddings. Never, ever in a zillion years would I have told you in 2019 that I’d become this new version of myself. In this role, I listen, ask, stay present and be compassionate in deep ways with people at significant moments in their lives. I have come to know that in these moments of life, people and places are closer than you think and mean so much more. The memories, moments, and characteristics of who you are as a person are what people cling to most.

Our world is not going back to the old way. Our world can only look forward, out the front window, to imagine something new. I ask you; what values and traits are you going to be in our new world now.

The following are traits re-counted to me about their beloveds by brides, grooms, and families planning weddings and virtual memorials. Which of these traits do you have? What traits are you becoming? If not for you, these traits cannot emerge.

Joyful
Kind
Caring
Warm-Hearted
Safe
Dedicated
Generous
Practical
Fun
Hard Working
Honest
Trustworthy
Authentic

Look from the trait in you. Be what you want to see in the world. Turn down the negative, take a little quiet time this spring to watch the grass grow, a butterfly or birds fly overhead, or even a shooting star. The world needs the gift of your presence, energy, and power now.

Choose with mindfulness and care. I believe in you!

This article originally appeared in the Spring 2021 issue of CHOICES Magazine